3 Steps to Finding The Answers Within
Making changes in your life can be scary and create uncertainty. Simone Allison female is an empowerment coach and international bestselling author and has 3 main points for making positive changes in your lives. Including how to set intentions, letting go, synchronicity and angels. Including what do angels look like?
Making Changes in your life
Making positive changes in your life can seem overwhelming and require a lot of deep soul searching and letting go. When it comes to changing your life for the better Simone Allison has some great tips. Whether it’s changing your life path, relationships, or career.
Estimated reading time: 9 minutes
Simone is a female empowerment coach and international bestselling author. In her book ‘Disempowered No More’ a spiritual journey to discovering purpose, power, and passion after divorce, she chronicles everything that’s gone on in her life that’s taken her to where she is now.
She’s able to offer all of these incredible insights and I’m so grateful to have her with us today as bettering yourself starts with you! The talk turns to synchronicity and angels, which I wasn’t expecting. But keep listening or reading to make up your own mind and take the tips that are relevant to you.
Making Changes in Your Life | Preparation
With everything going on today, there are so many opportunities to create new businesses. There’s changes in relationships and all around us, and some of us might be wanting to make those life changes but are too scared to do it or have no idea even where to even start to be able to make these changes. So what I want to know is:
What plans do you have to have in place for making life changes?
Simone: “What I suggest to others first and foremost is to go within. When you really want to create change, whether it’s your job or your purpose in this life, whether it’s in a relationship. If you do want to make a change, I recommend that you go within. When you go within, you find the answers that you’re looking for.
Our souls are speaking to us at all times, it’s just sometimes our lives and minds are so busy it makes it really difficult to hear what’s going on within. When we meditate, you’re then able to calm and soothe the mind and to really hear our soul speaking to us. So by tapping into the higher self, or if you believe in a higher power, you can pray and you can ask the universe.”
How to Set Intentions
Simone: What you want to do is to set an intention. What I mean by that is you want to get really clear on what it is you want to shift in your life. Get very clear on it because we’re energetic beings, we’re human beings having this spiritual experience.
We want to send out that positive energy to the universe and get really clear, positive, and sure on what intention we’re setting.
How to Let Go
And then finally, what you want to do is, and this might take some time, because I know certainly took me some time, but what you want to is begin to let go. What I mean by let go is, you may want to control the outcome of whatever it is that we’re in search of but we have to let the universe play its part as well.
We have this way as humans, that we want to control things. But with time we realize that there’s only so much we can do and we have to leave the rest up to the universe.
Letting go is the last piece, but when you are wanting to leave a relationship, which is hard and I knew that this was something that was meant to be. It was something that was supposed to happen. When doors close for us, we have to realize that others will open. Bigger and better ones.
Fear of making changes in our life
A lot of times we are stuck in that fear of making a huge change. But if we don’t find that power within, then what we’re doing is telling the universe that we want to remain there. So what I’d encourage you to do is to go within, meditate, find the answers you’re looking for, set your intention, and then let it go.
Eve: When you were going through your spiritual awakening, you had experiences with synchronicities where you knew you were on the right path as you felt that you were receiving divine guidance. Can you give us some examples?
How do we know you when we’re being guided and going in the right direction?
Simone: I found out from someone that we all have angels. Now I came from a Catholic upbringing and we didn’t focus on angels. So when I heard this I thought this is fou-fou, this is not something that I subscribe to (as many of you maybe thinking now). But what ended up happening was, I would look at my phone, my clock on my stove, things on the television, and see repeating numbers.
What is Synchronicity | Repeating Numbers
The happening by chance of two or more related or similar events at the same time.Cambridge Dictionary
However synchronicity spiritually are incidents of significance that ask us to stop, listen and consider the possibility of the divine. They show where they want us to pay attention, such as specific repeating or reoccurring numbers.
Simone: This had never happened before. I began to see synchronicities (repeating numbers), or songs on the radio that answer a question that you put out into the universe.
Eve: It’s so true that when you tune into something, you notice it more and more. I had a friend in LA who had her special number and she’d see if everywhere; car parking, receipts, license plates. It probably wasn’t actually appearing anymore than any other number but she was tuned into it so she saw more of it.
So be aware of where you’re focusing and manifesting your energy because you’ll create your own synchronicities. Another fun fact: The longer the sequence of repeating numbers, the more powerful the message.
What do angels really look like?
I began to see synchronicities like this happening over and over. So I went within again and I spoke to my angels. I did my research and I began to understand that our angels are all around us. And you know angels don’t have egos, so they’re not our departed loved ones, they’re energetic beings. When you see a picture of an angel on magazine in a book, it shows human form but they’re not human form.
They do that so we can better understand what is happening. That they are our angels and they are communicating with us but they do that in a way we can understand. They are only energy, just as we are only energy. But our angels are there, around us, and they want to guide, help us, and have us succeed on our journey.
On the path of self love
Simone: Even friends I would speak to and that I began to encounter were on the same the path of self love. I began to attract people that were on the same path, that’s another synchronicity.
As I talked to other people about these experiences, lo and behold they would look at their phone and they would suddenly see repeating numbers for the first time. I began to notice that synchronicity and signs was happening more and more.
This is just one of the very many experiences I’ve had along my journey that have really spoken to me. But this guidance and the support is available to all of us.
How would you recommend us recognizing and communicating to angels?
How can we be aware of angels in our everyday lives so that we can look for the signals and utilize them and utilize their help?
Simone: What I would suggest is if you don’t talk to your angels, if you don’t pray that’s ok. Just let them know, or you can use what I use which is “Angels, Angels everywhere, Angels, Angels, hear my prayer”. And with that you start and you let your angels know to show you a sign that they’re here. They will show you a sign!
I recall one moment where, I was still grappling whether I believed in the signs that I was receiving. Because many times I would go back and forward with whether I believed in it or not.
What is this thats really happening? Is it just coincidence? So, I remember specifically one day asking my angels to show me a definitive sign, I asked for a white feather. I would suggest you ask for a white feather. It’s best to ask for somewhere outside where you can experience it, not inside lying in bed.
I remember one day in my apartment building and I went downstairs to get my mail and as I walked out of my elevator, I look down and in front of me was a white feather. So that was confirmation for me. But yes, my angels heard my prayer, so I would urge and encourage others to really reach out and they will show you the signs.
Unsure of angels?
Eve: It’s such a beautiful thing but if you’re really unsure about this, if you’re not sure what we’re talking about, just give it a go! It doesn’t cost any money to try, you’ve got nothing to lose from just trying it but you have to believe. You have to commit to it.
Don’t worry what anyone else is thinking. I know in times of loss in my life, a white feather has always appeared to me and other females in my family but people always have a way of finding a reason why. “It’s because you got a new pillow case or duvet”. They want to find a logical answer because they haven’t experienced it. Just trust the process, don’t be discouraged. If you’re a non believer, don’t take away from believers. You have no idea what they might be going through and the strength this might be giving them.
We’ve talked about a lot about tapping into the higher self and meditation so Simone and I have created a separate episode on meditation. The how, what and why so that you can really understand and set this process in motion. We think it’s so important as it can give you so much more confidence and peace in your everyday life.
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Eve Dawes is a Blogger, Podcaster, Mrs. England World 2020, a WBFF Pro Diva, SAG-AFTRA actress, NASM certified Personal Trainer, Founder of Dawes Custom Cosmetics and GlamourandGains.com. Eve's also the host of BFF (beauty, fitness & fashion) segment on Spill The Tea Live! The show for British Expats. Eve has over 15 years experience in the fashion world, is an avid traveller and cruelty-free beauty advocate.